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Gamblers' Fallacy #Selfie

Are you on a winning streak?

Life is like the Roulette wheel, every day is a new spin of the wheel and as you hope that your ball will land on red once again as it has for the past couple of months it is inevitable that your ball will land on the statistically equal possibility of black. Expecting that little white ball to land on a specific number, that would be too much to ask for.

The Gamblers’ Fallacy is the mindset that has made Las Vegas a destination in what is otherwise a desert waste land. It is the idea that given even odds a winning streak happens independently of the statistics. I find that this logic happens in everyday life whether you are in the casino or not. You can plan a lot of things in your life but you can’t control everything.  

I wanted to paint a painting every day and boy howdy, I was on a 50 plus day winning streak! I conscientiously scheduled my time to meet my goal all was working and I found myself in the middle of the euphoria of meeting my goal and painting every single day! What a wonderful place to be in! I was snugly wrapped in meeting my realistically unreasonable expectations that were doomed to fail.

The first day to fail to meet my daily painting was pretty awful; I started beating myself up emotionally and mentally. It was this toxic self-talk that lead to the next few days of failure. As each day passed I painted but failed to finish the painting or failed to post it. This coupled with a few other personal disappointments in one short week I found myself spiraling down a funnel of depression and lack of confidence.  I just wanted to stay in bed.

I had to snap out of this madness! I knew too what would do that is an attitude adjustment on my expectations of what I was reasonably able to do. Slowly I came to the realization that much like a gambling addiction I was really expecting the impossible for myself because it is inevitable that the roulette wheel of life was going to fall on a losing number. The only way to avoid it was to completely sequester myself from life and that wouldn’t be a way to live.

With my new expectations adjusted I am moving forward and I believe that this was a lesson that I needed to learn. I don’t know how many times I need to learn to be kinder to myself through my expectations but I suppose life will continue to beat me over the head until I have it down.

Winning streaks are great, but life with loved ones and even with the occasional unforeseen challenges that come with them is what makes life worth living. It is these ups and downs that teach us the most about what it means to be alive. The best we can expect is to keep breathing and adjust our schedule to make room for the things life throws at us.

I will be getting back to “Being My Selfie” series but I am going to post them a little less often so that I can allow myself to experience all that life has to offer, the wins and losses.

Now it is your turn, I would like to know from you is what was your most recent life’s winning streak like and how did it end?

P.S. As I was preparing today’s upload would you believe my Lenovo computer crashed again! This was the second time in my 3 months of ownership. I had gotten it back 2 weeks ago from the manufacturer repair depot. Good thing my intuition told me not to trust that machine… Office Max took care of me and I should be getting my laptop back early next week… then I have 2 weeks of trying to get everything back on it once again! Life is so much better if you don’t play Russian Roulette with your data.

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Special Pleading #Selfie

I'm special! Your expectations don't apply to me!

Human beings are comical creatures, we will say about anything to keep from being wrong.  This is the fallacy of special pleading.  Moving the goals or expectations when it is revealed that we made a mistake is a natural. I think as children we come to this faulty logic naturally we will invent ways to cling to our old beliefs rather than changing our mind and learning through better understanding.

Here is an example of special pleading that works for the Blue’s Brothers: Jake’s List of Excuses for leaving his mystery woman at the altar.

I know we’ve all taken this position to cover-up or make ourselves feel better about the things we have done to wrong another no matter the magnitude of the error. Even if it is a tiny white lie we use to beg our case, it is still a fallacy in logic.

The worst of this is the position of “it wasn’t my fault!” when in reality it is our fault and we should be held accountable. Has humans this is one of the most difficult things to do, admit our shortcomings. I think that our fear of repercussions overtake our logic ability to learn from our mistakes.

The most contemptible of these is when through our own action or inaction we create circumstances that force another to repair our mistakes while not taking responsibility for our own role played in the state of affairs. While special pleading can seeming repair the deception, it doesn’t correct the original wrong and the situation is free to escalate just like Carrie Fisher’s character in the clip, the third party ends up in the sewer muck.

There seems to be a lot of this mindset running around in social media, best exemplified by our nation’s leadership and mimicked by our youth. Until we can stop and hold ourselves and others accountable for actions and repercussions we will not see any peace or growth in mankind. Then when we take a look at history, maybe it is simply not possible to eradicate this human instinct to plead special for our mistakes.

Just be aware, that special pleading can lead to harm to others and will not really solve the problem. I must simply ask myself to try really hard to be accountable for my own actions and hope others will do the same. I guess that is really all I can logically expect. 

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Strawman #Selfie

Where's the beef?

Where’s the argument AKA where’s the beef? When we exaggerate someone’s argument to make it easier to attack we are creating a Stawman fallacy. This is done extensively in the political arena. Nearly every political argument will eventually succumb to the Strawman argument.  This is so common place that we often seem them as valid arguments.

It is much easier to exaggerate or completely fabricate a disagreement to present our own position as more reasonable than to face a valid cold logical conclusion. Typically a logical resolution is not always as emotionally charged as a misrepresented argument. If the rebuttal is full of emotion, more than likely you are being duped with a Strawman argument.

The reason these are so popular?  It is such a natural human response to want to feel emotionally charged about the things we care deeply about, these fake issues sell a lot of newspapers and win free media time. No matter how erroneous the issue we still fall prey to this faulty logic because our emotions are always at the ready to stir us into action.

Here is a classic commercial arguing that all burger restaurants are offering you less beef in their burgers than Wendy’s. I love this commercial and it ranks in my top 10 of all-time favorites with or without the fallacy – who can’t love these little old ladies taking a stand for their beef.

The crux here is that no burger place would ever offer a burger as represented in this commercial or they would not be in business very long. The argument here is that Wendy’s quarter pound hamburger has more beef in the sandwich than any of their competitors. There really is no argument presented other than a made up comparison.  A quarter pound hamburger is a quarter pound hamburger and as far as I’m concerned it is the preparation, condiment selection and bun that makes the difference one from the other. Even though this is my all-time favorite commercial I still prefer a Big Mac (no matter how bad it is for me) over the Wendy’s single every time. 

You might have noticed that I left out any political arguments. I have done this for a reason – I worry that people won’t pay attention to the logic if I start using emotionally charged political issues as examples.

So the next time you are faced with a wildly passionate argument that doesn’t actually do anything but distort the competition, you must stop and ask yourself where the real beef is. You are most likely facing another common Strawman fallacy designed to sway your opinion while disguising the actual truth.

What examples do you have of the Strawman Fallacy? 

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Slippery Slope #Selfie

Don't get body slammed by bad logic!

We see logical fallacies in the media and it politics every day they are part of the human condition and the art of persuasion. The Slippery Slope Fallacy is a string of cause and effects that do not necessarily add up to the assumed conclusion. Usually the argument is a series of events that will lead to an unreasonable catastrophic end.

To illustrate the current series of Direct TV commercials uses this logical fallacy to catch our attention with humor. By warning us with many ridiculous outcomes if we subscribe to cable such as we will “Get body slammed by a low land gorilla.

When you pay too much for cable you feel down. When you feel down you stay in bed. When you stay in bed they give your job to someone new.

When they give your job to someone new he has a lot to learn. When he has a lot to learn mistakes are made. And when mistakes are made you get body slammed by a lowland Gorilla.

Don’t Get Body Slammed by a Lowland Gorilla.

We all understand that this is a series of events that is very unlikely to happen to us personally so it is humorous and obviously intended to grab our attention; however it is a perfect illustration of the Slippery Slope Fallacy. 

Where this dishonesty and muddy logic gets nasty is when the chain of events is much more subtle and seemingly more likely. It can be used to persuade our opinion on much more important issues. The strength of this argument is only as strong as its weakest link.

This argument is a parental favorite and I have been known to use it myself and my parents used it on me. “If you don’t study you will not get good grades. If you don’t get good grades you won’t get into college. If you don’t get into college you will be flipping burgers for a living.”  Although this is a scenario that is more likely than getting body slammed by a lowland gorilla – it is also not the only conclusion that can happen from not studying.

Many wildly successful entrepreneurs do not have any education past high school and who is to say that flipping burgers is undesirable or will not lead to owning a chain of restaurants. My point being that there are many possible outcomes even if the argument sounds reasonable.

Just be aware of the slippery slope or you too could find yourself getting body slammed by bad logic.

What are some examples on of the Slippery Slope Fallacy have you come across?

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What? #Selfie

Do politicians and the media ever use reasonable arguments?

Humans are funny creatures we can find ourselves believing in impossible arguments designed by masters of the art of persuasion. In college I took Logic 101 and first learned about logical fallacies. It was an eye opener. Even though I know about 24 these nemeses of logic I still fall prey to them.  

With my next group of #Selfies I would like to explore a variety of ill formed arguments that are found in social media on a daily basis. Hopefully I will be able to solidify my own knowledge of the false arguments to help me remember them.

 You experience a fallacy regularly through sneaky media creators and politicians who use them masterfully to sway your opinion.  They do this because it works if you don’t know how to ferret out their corrupt logic.

Simply put a logical fallacy is a flaw in reasoning. They are thoughtful illusions crafted to trick you into believing some argument or point of view is true. If a story doesn’t quite add up there is probably a fallacy hidden in the story.  

Most of the time there are several fallacies that are stacked up in a story or a speech.  The writer will cover all of their bases by twisting the logic in several directions to make sure that their faulty reasons stick like glue and you will more likely hold on to their truth rather than think about how their argument is screwed up.

It is really all just part of our own flawed human condition because we want to believe and we’ll defy logic to fit in and get on the bandwagon.

Do you too fall prey to logical fallacies?

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Loss #Selfie

What are your thoughts about personal loss? Who do you trust with your fears?

Everyone handles loss differently. Some find comfort in company while others prefer to confront their losses alone. Being a highly visual person it is extremely difficult for me to face death and major illness visually. I tend to avoid funerals and hospitals because the last memory of someone I care about in those situations is not a memory that I care to have. I would much rather remember people while they weren’t suffering or lifeless.

Funerals are the worst because it never seems to be really about the deceased but the extended family. In my experience family members who most likely haven’t seen or talked to each other since the last death in the family suddenly begin to position themselves in a hierarchy of who is grieving the most. There is an unspoken competition as to who was impacted the most or who was more important to the departed, basically selfishness in their grief becomes paramount.

We are forced to face our own mortality in these situations and it appears that our fight or flight instinct is turned up to maximum. Emotions during these moments are on the edge and even personal observations are taken in offense, unless of course it is geared to be put into an application for sainthood.

Real concern for fellow mourners confronting their grief can be in conflict with family and friends. We become witness to a dramatic affair and the very worst of character is revealed in these moments.  This is another reason I have difficulty with these situations and prefer to meet with personal loss alone or at the most surrounded by people who I truly trust to understand the worst in myself.   

Our own mortality is something we all must confront as each passing moment we race to the same inevitable end. No one lives forever… yet.  Until technology finds a way to solve that universal fear we will always have to find ways to comfort ourselves and others through our losses.

What are your thoughts about personal loss? Who do you trust with your fears?

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My Way #Selfie

Do you have difficulties in your life that lead you to the childish impulse to hold your breath until you get your way?

How easy it is to revert to our childhoods and attempt to hold our breath until we get our way or answers to our questions. I have been trying to find out what artist painted the most self-portraits.  Naturally I turned to Google to inform me.  There is a gap in this particular nugget of information on the web. So I must ask if Google doesn’t know it, who does?

When I started this project and realized that this was turning into something larger than I expected I decided that maybe I needed to figure out a goal and define my purpose for creating all of these selfies. In my experience, as creative projects typically go they often end up in a completely different place than you expect in the beginning.

With time, growth and unseen obstacles that happen through the process we can expect that the vision will evolve into something more interesting than what we thought in the beginning. This is the number one thing I love about working in a series. Half the fun is to see where it goes and the discovery of what keeps the idea going.

The first thing that usually gets me started is the simple desire to paint. Individual images tell stories and when you work in a series the paintings start taking a life of their own and they can often become a novel.  There is a personal delight in uncovering the bigger story the paintings begin to tell that reaches beyond the primary fulfilling the need to express myself.  

One obstacle that inevitably pops up over and over again is the question of what the purpose of the story and I always want to answer that question prematurely. I have to remember that the story is being revealed with each piece and pushing the envelope too early may crash the story.  I cannot hold my breath until I have a clear vision and the journey is more revealing if I don’t know all the answers.

Maybe with the mystery that Google has created for me is part of the process as well. I know I can research the answer in traditional ways, or I could seek out an expert. But I have decided that the question of who painted the most self-portraits is unnecessary information for this journey.  I think the better goal is simply continue until I can’t stand the subject any more.  However, if anyone knows the missing Google information of which artist painted the most self-portraits please let me know.

Do you have difficulties in your life that lead you to the childish impulse to hold your breath until you get your way?

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Overwhelm #Selfie

Who isn’t creating selfies? The trend, the ease, the opinions, the disorders, the overwhelming awesomeness has taken over news feeds across all media sources. Even the President is found taking selfies at commemorative events such as funerals and Red Sox games, now that is mainstream!

All of the attention that #selfies are getting validates their importance.  As authorities malign the practice the more curious they become.  Heated discussions are sparked on the subject and not a single opinion is impartial. Everyone seems to have an opinion on the practice.

The one thing that I’ve noticed is that many selfies are beginning to be more realistic. Instead of the search for the perfect selfie most people creating them are creating not so perfect images that would never pass the muster of media publishers and they are simply celebrating their lives through candid snapshots.

If you want a quick view of the variety of selfies being taken, Selfeed.com is a site dedicated to real-time updates of the #selfie tag on Instagram. It is a blur of activity and will give you an idea just how many selfies are being taken every moment. As the images flash on the screen, it is as difficult to process as it would be to see each individual in a crowd but you can see the frankness of what is being created. Warning: If you are an epileptic don’t go to Selfeed.com it is sure to put you into a fit.

So if you haven’t already taken and shared a selfie, it is time for you to start doing it right now. Please overwhelm me with your own awesomeness! Post your selfie pic here and share your honest life shot with me on my Facebook Page.

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Monday #Selfie

Where do Mondays come from?

Monday, Monday, Monday! Aren’t you so glad it is here? Back to work and back to the grind… The big thing that I have to look forward to is that as I try to get things done spending a ridiculous amount of time looking for things I just had! No matter how organized I try to be it seems to be an endless search for tools or pages that I need and had just a moment ago.

Tell me please that I am not alone with this phenomenon.  After giving it some thought I’m wondering if it isn’t a right brain/left brain thing.

I know I often shift into right brain dominate when I’m working. My first clue is I lose track of time while doing the job, especially when I’m in a groove.  I think I get into whatever I’m doing and lay things aside absent (right brain) mindedly after using them and move forward with the next step. Somehow when I come back to the real world (left brain) there is enough of a shift and I have completely forgotten where I put the tool aside.  

I have tried many things to reduce this effect including a container to hold all the items I need for the project and this doesn’t help. I still put things down wherever I finished with them.  Then the next time I need it, the hunt is on. This problem seems to get more troublesome when things are already out of disorder. Last week when my computer hard drive went down this “lose what I just had” problem seemed to escalate even if I was working on a non-computer item or maybe it is just the state of being discombobulated that leaks all over everything.

The way I got through last week was to adjust my mindset to accept that things were in disarray, just roll with the punches and know that eventually this too will pass. I am hoping that this weekend has washed away all of the disorganization and everything will fall into place as they should.

My computer is back, I have reinstalled most of the programs that I use and have downloaded all items from the backup. All should be right in the world even if it is a MONDAY!

Have a great day, week and month! Via la Monday!

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Workings of the Soul #Selfie

What draws you into sharing your life online?

The impressions of digital self-portraits are fascinating to me as being a part of our social media culture. What does it reveal about a person? There are complex human emotions behind each selfie in how it is picked by the 'artist' and then how it is seen by the world in which it is shared.

I believe that the selfie reveals a lot about the individual that is posting it. Most of all if reveals the workings of the soul. It is a reflection of how that person responds to the world around them and how they want to be seen by the world.

Just as the caveman documented their major life events on the walls of their living spaces, we are now able to chronicle our lives on virtual walls with ease. Our life online whether real or invented is developed through our regular postings. We can develop relationships across the world with people we may never meet face to face. Technology has changed the way we interact with the world as well as how we respond to it.

As our individual stories develop online, we allow the world to see us in our uniquely created persona. We can find more people who share our interests or rally like-minded folks to our shared concerns.

We can share our passions or failures with over a billion potential people worldwide on Facebook alone and 48% of posted selfies are shared there. Then there are 350 million photos posted daily on this network. Most amazing, the average user spends 20 minutes each time they log in and can be exposed to 1500 pieces of content when they do. Of course more than 75% of users visit multiple times during a day and spend more than 8 hours a month. This is a lot of life sharing on a single social media option!

The selfie is an important development of this interaction. We are sharing our lives, so we will naturally want to show our face and the faces of the people we love. Humans are social beings and our help to faces tell our story and the easiest way to create that content is with our cellphones.

With photo content easily created I decided to create a series by combining the historical journey of the original painted artist’s self-portrait method and the modern selfie photo. This allows me an expressive visual dialogue for my response on the human condition created by social media and insight on our place in the world at large.

What do you get out of social media? What draws you into sharing your life online?

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